Injustice Never Gets the Last Word

Cincinnati’s Racial Wound

On July 19th, an old Cincinnati wound that has been slowing healing for the past 14 years was reopened when white University of Cincinnati campus police officer Ray Tensing shot and killed African American Samuel Dubose. Mr. Dubose was pulled over for not having OH state tags on the front of his car. Major news outlets from around the world have been covering this story (Cincinnati.comMSNBC, BBC, Foxnews). Before the grand jury’s indictment was announced, the mood around town was tense. University classes were cancelled. Police were on high alert.

Personally, this all hit home because the shooting occurred in my home neighborhood, Mt. Auburn. The church I planted 5 years ago is home to dozens of UC students who walk to church each week. On July 19th, while I was preaching a sermon about how Christians can faithfully navigate America’s cultural decline, Samuel Dubose was being shot in the head and killed less than a mile away.

The Best and the Worst

Earlier this month, I was proud to call Cincinnati my home when we hosted MLB’s All Star game and local legend Todd Frazier won the home run derby. It was electric. Downtown Cincinnati is vibrant and alive, with a gorgeous riverfront park that invites people from all over the region to sit on our city’s front porch. Just north of downtown, Over the Rhine is a neighborhood undergoing its own unbelievable renaissance, with millions of dollars of redevelopment being invested. This isn’t just hometown pride, others have taken notice, such as National Geographic. Even local Cincinnatians who have inherited her inferiority complex have asked forgiveness and fallen in love (language alert) all over again with our city.

Yet our problems persist. Much of Cincinnati’s current success is due to a dark past of racism and injustice, even if so many of us are unaware of it. For better or worse, this is the city I love and have committed my life to. This is the neighborhood where my kids play. This is where my church is. But we’re sick of the caution tape. We’re sick of the teddy bear memorials on street corners.

We see the best and worst of city life.

The Samuel Dubose shooting shows us that we’ve still got a long way to go. When a white person is pulled over by the police for a minor traffic violation, we think, “Oh crap. I might get a ticket.” But many African Americans don’t have the same experience. Some will tell you getting pulled over by police can be a terrifying experience. And now there’s video evidence (**graphic**) that proves the point. Samuel Dubose should be alive today. Prosecutor Joe Deters called this the most asinine police incident he’s ever witnessed. His outrage gave voice to countless African Americans who feel unfairly targeted and mistreated by police who haven’t had video evidence.

Righteousness and Justice

The bible frequently pairs the words “righteousness” and “justice” (see Psalm 72 for example). Righteousness is the standard of what is truly good, rooted in God’s holy character and love. Justice is the community’s response to unrighteousness and injustice.

As the church, Christians should pray for and promote God’s righteousness in our city, but also fight against injustice when we see it. In so doing, we are pointing people to the good and righteous King who ultimately provides both.

Fighting for righteousness and justice shows us that God himself is the Ultimate Good. Proclaiming God’s righteousness exposes the sin in our world, our cities, and in our own hearts. Fighting for justice shows us that God is bringing all injustice to an ultimate end.

The Hope of God’s Kingdom

That’s the hope of God’s Kingdom. Jesus is the righteous ruler who will bring God’s righteousness and justice to us. And Jesus’ kingdom was bought and paid for through the ultimate injustice, the cross.

Jesus himself was an innocent man who was unfairly targeted by the authorities. Jesus was convicted of a crime he did not commit. Jesus was tortured and killed by people who hated him. There is no greater injustice than what happened at the cross. Yet in Jesus’ resurrection, we see that injustice never gets the last word. Life does. And having conquered the ultimate enemy, death, Jesus promised that all injustice will be made right and God’s righteousness will be absolute.

That is the Christian hope.

Until Christ returns, Christians bear witness to God’s Kingdom in every part of the world. We proclaim a righteous God, who took upon himself all the world’s injustices, and will make all things new in the end.

Injustice never gets last word.


How to do a family devotion

The lost art of the family devotion

One of the most important responsibilities for the Christian family is to pass on the faith to the children. But the thought of leading a family devotion sounds about as fun as a root canal. Schedules are busy, kids get antsy and hard to keep still, and  activities pull the family in a hundred different directions. Is it even possible?

I believe it is, and its not as hard as you might think. I have four kids. One girl (10 years old), and three boys (ages 8, 6, and 4). Life is chaotic and busy, and yet we’ve been able to find a weekly rhythm where we do a family devotion. It doesn’t need to take a lot of time, the parents don’t need to be theology experts, and the kids will enjoy it more than you may expect.

Three ingredients in a family devotion

I was first challenged to do family devotions while in seminary by my spiritual disciplines professor, Dr. Don Whitney. He suggested that every family devotion should have three main ingredients: singing, reading, and prayer. Simple.

Wednesday night is family devotion night at the Clary house. The kids even look forward to it and make sure to remind me of it.

For the singing part, I ask each kid to choose a worship song and then find it on YouTube with the lyrics (like this and this). My oldest son and I grab guitars and play along, but everyone sings along. We turn the volume up loud and have fun with it.

Next, for the reading part, we choose one Bible verse or story and then talk about what it means. Sometimes I’ll ask one of the kids to read, sometimes my wife or I will read it if its longer or harder to read. This time is challenging and humbling because kids are always thinking and they have excellent questions. Even as a pastor, I often find myself without answers, and I’ll just tell them, “that’s a great question; I don’t know the answer.” That’s OK. We don’t have to have all the answers, we just need to provide a space where the kids can ask.

Finally, we pray. Usually by this time, my four year old is losing his mind and can’t sit still any longer. The others are getting antsy, too, and that’s fine. We ask each child for something they want to ask God for and then we pray. Sometimes we give each child time to pray, and sometimes my wife or myself prays for everyone.

Don’t expect it to be magical

What I’ve described above can take just a few minutes or could go much longer, depending on how many kids and what comes up.   Honestly, sometimes I look forward to this and we have a great time together. But more often, it tests my patience as kids fight over songs and say unkind things to each other. And on occasion, by the time we’re finished I’m more frustrated than when we began. Trying to herd cats for 15 minutes can try anyone’s patience. It’s not magical, its often an exercise in discipline to just get through it. But as the kids grow older, the prayers, the songs we sing, and the scriptures we read give the Holy Spirit kindling to burn. It helps them to hear mom and dad confessing sin and thanking Jesus for his grace again for another week.

It can be amazing or exhausting. Either way, we’ve invited God to our home and worshiped him together as a family. And in these few minutes we recognize that Jesus is King of Kings and Lord of the Living Room.

Bible Reading Plans for 2015

I presented a simple Life Planning Tool in a previous post. As the calendar turns over to another year, this is a great opportunity to evaluate your life’s priorities and make some changes. Many decide to read through the Bible starting in January, and there are plenty of tools to help you do this.

For many people, the thought of reading through the Bible is daunting and seems like it would take forever. But it can be much more easily done by breaking it up into readable chunks and reading for a few minutes per day. According to the graphic, it only takes about 70 hours and 40 minutes to read the Bible at “pulpit rate.” With a good plan, this can be done in a year.

Here are my two favorite tools that I have used to help me keep track.

1. Discipleship Journal printable plans. If you’re old school and like to use paper and bookmarks, this is the way to go. Several plans are available here to print out. You can fold the paper up and use it as a bookmark and check the box for each chapter that you read.

2. Youversion Bible App. With this app you can choose from several Bible reading plans and the app keeps track of your progress. It also has the option to listen to audio recordings of deep-voiced dudes reading the Bible to you. Sadly, there’s no Morgan Freeman option.

For me, I’ve decided that I’m going Amish with my Bible reading this year. I have found that using an app simply introduces too many distractions. When I sit down in the morning to read the Bible, holding an iPad in my hand tempts me to check sports scores, read blogs and news, and play a few words in Words With Friends before I ever open the Bible app. My focus this year will be reading from my ESV Study Bible and using a paper study plan that I’ll check off everyday. This will hopefully help me keep focused and on track in 2015.

Life Planning Tool for 2015

A couple of years ago, my friend Brian Howard shared with me a life planning tool to help me prioritize and set goals for my personal life. Businesses and churches have many resources to help people be more productive and focused on the job, but most of us live our personal lives on autopilot. It is no less important for us to know what to prioritize in our personal lives and have a plan of action than our professional lives.

Over the last couple of years, this life planning tool has been very helpful for me to intentionally think through what are some of the most important things in my life and develop a plan of action for them. When I first used this tool a few years ago, I discovered an unexpected priority that I spent a year working on: patience. I prayed about this almost daily and saw God do some great things in my life regarding patience as a result. In 2014, I spent the latter half of the year focused on my personal health and wellness, lost 35 pounds, and am now in the best physical shape of my life. I have not yet completed a life plan for 2015, but as this year draws to a close, I will be thinking more about my life and what lies ahead.

I’ve taken Brian Howard’s life planning tool and reworked it to better fit the way I think. My version of the Life Planning Tool is available here if you’d like to give it a try and implement for 2015.

Some personal goals you may consider:

  • Read through the Bible
  • Pray the prayer covenant every day.
  • Date your wife one night every week
  • Plan a personal budget, get out of debt, and give more generously
  • Spend more time with your friends or family
  • Read more extensively
  • Lose weight and exercise
  • Make a career change

If your personal life is in need of attention, the Life Planning Tool can help you think through your life, hear from the Holy Spirit, and make a plan for action.

Black activists feel abused by the Democrats

Have you seen this? The Democrats have had a stranglehold on black voters for years, which doesn’t make a lot of sense since the Entitlement state has done so much damage to black families and communities. This result was inevitable. In 2008, Democrats controlled the House, the Senate, and the Presidency, with the most liberal president in a generation, who also happened to be black. If there was ever an opportunity to showcase a liberal Utopian vision, this was it.

And this is the result.

Power vs. Weakness

Jesus once said to the Apostle Paul that “my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9). This principle is the central paradox of the Christian faith: God’s power works through human weakness. Paul goes on to say, “therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

Yet at the same time, the Bible repeatedly asserts that human beings have real authority over all creation (Gen 1:28), in marriage (Eph 5:22-24), in parenting (Eph 6:1-4), in government (Rom 13:1-8), over demonic spirits (Luke 10:20), and in the church (Heb 13:17). Exercising authority is exercising power, yet we are simultaneously called to a life of weakness. How can this be?

Definitions are important, and in this case we need to understand what weakness means. Weakness is not the same as being passive, a push-over, timid, indecisive, ignorant, or unprepared. Many people fall into the trap of thinking that sitting around and doing nothing is what God wants them to do. This is not the weakness Jesus calls us to but rather putting God to the test. God calls his people to be people who exercise authority by taking bold and courageous action. We are simultaneously called to power and weakness. The weakness Christ calls us to is trusting God to work through our deficiencies. It is taking action with an utter dependence on God’s power to work through you.

In other words, Jesus taught Paul that true effectiveness in ministry is not derived from human wisdom or human power, but rather on God’s wisdom and power (1 Cor 1:18-25). God reminded Paul of his utter dependence on Him by weakening him physically in some way (Paul called it a thorn in his flesh). Yet God still told Paul to continue preaching, studying, preparing, working, traveling, disciplining, and writing. Paul put forth maximum effort, but his ultimate trust was not in his own abilities, but a deeper trust in God’s power to work through him.

I once knew a Christian missionary who decided that his fundraising strategy would be to sit in his room for a month and pray and trust God to provide. This sounds holy, spiritual and filled with faith, but it was his hyper-spiritualized way to avoid his fear of picking up the phone and putting in the hard work of support raising. Needless to say, he never reported to the mission field.

For many Christians, this verse can become an excuse for sitting on the sidelines and not doing anything while holding the spiritual trump card of “trusting God.” That’s not God’s power through weakness, that’s just laziness. God’s power through weakness is trusting God through your fears, your doubts, your insecurities, your failures, and your ignorance — and yet still taking bold action, trusting that even though you’re weak God will do something for his glory through you.

How will you trust God, in spite of your weaknesses, fears and failures, to still take bold action and believe Him to work through you?

The Bible’s Instruction Manual for Parents

A few weeks ago at my church, I concluded a preaching series called Father Hunger. This series was about how God is the true Father and all Fatherhood is a reflection of his ultimate love and authority.

The final sermon of the series (The Father’s Legacy) focused on how dads need to do more than merely protect and provide for their kids, but instill a biblical worldview in their hearts (Deut 6:4-9). In Ephesians 6:4, Paul says “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (ESV).”

The word for “discipline” here is important. It means much more than merely keeping kids in line through various disciplinary methods. The Greek word here is “paideia,” which does not have direct English counterpart. It is also translated “training” in the NIV and “nurture” in the KJV. To bring up a child in the paideia of the Lord is to instill in him or her a biblical worldview; not merely a few Bible stories, some rules, and some memory verses, but to help children see everything through a biblical understanding of things.

The Bible presents us with a complete understanding of everything: our origins (Creation), what’s gone wrong with the world (Fall), what God has done to address sin in the world (Redemption), and where all this is headed (Judgement/New Creation). God’s purposes are integral to everything and it is important for Christians to see everything through the lens of God’s work in the world.

So, then, where do we begin? The starting point is the gospel of Jesus Christ, where we all see that salvation is a matter of God’s gracious work to transform us by the cross and not our moral effort. But certainly, the gospel does not exclude morality, the gospel empowers morality. Within the framework of God’s saving work in the hearts of children, they also learn God’s character and how to live life through good training on Christian morality.

The first seven chapters of Proverbs is like an instruction manual for parents, showing the various topics of discussion and instruction that parents can instill in their children. These chapters ring continually with this and similar refrains, “hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and forsake not your mother’s teaching (1:8).” Several times through these chapters, the phrase “my son” appears and introduces a new topic.

I’ve made a list of the various topics from these verses to get a sense for the sort of instruction that is needed to give children a biblical worldview. This is not a comprehensive list of everything to teach children, but can give parents direction in where to begin.

Important practical life lessons

  1. Honor father and mother by listening to and obeying their counsel (1:8).
  2. Have good friendships who will be a good influence (1:10).
  3. Get along with others and avoid violence (1:11).
  4. Do not resist discipline but learn from it (3:11-12).
  5. Show justice and fairness to others  (3:27).
  6. Always tell the truth (3:28).
  7. Do not plan to do harm to someone else (3:29)
  8. Keep your focus on what’s most important (4:25).
  9. Settle financial disputes quickly before they turn ugly (6:1-5).
  10. Work hard to provide for yourself and your family (6:6-11).

Important lessons in sexual morality

  1. Don’t listen to a seductive woman (5:3).
  2. Don’t put yourself in situations where you’ll be tempted towards sexual immorality (5:8).
  3. The consequences of sin are painful and long lasting (5:9-14).
  4. Find sexual fulfillment (and lots of it!) in your wife (5:15-19).
  5. Don’t entertain sexual fantasies and lust (6:24-35).
  6. Guard yourself against all forms of temptation (7:1-21).
  7. Sexual sin is extremely destructive (7:21-23).

A good practice for parents would be to read through Proverbs 1-7 over and over and allow these verses to help instill a biblical worldview in your own heart so you can pass them down to your children.

Thoughts on my 40th birthday

I turn 40 today.

That means, 40 years ago I was doing this. I’m the one in the diaper.

My original birthday

My 30’s have evaporated in a fog and now they’re gone. I remember being a kid and having my parents’ friends over at my house for someone’s 40th birthday party. Black balloons. Over-the-hill hats. “That seems like a lifetime away,” I thought to myself. No, only about 30 years away, as it turns out.

As I saw this day approaching, like watching a ominous clouds hovering in a dark sky, I thought I’d be curled up into a ball and spending the day binging on junk food, watching Meryl Streep movies, and crying myself to sleep. So far, that hasn’t happened, but I did enjoy watching Bill and Ted’s Excellent Adventure on Netflix yesterday.

Strangely, I feel great. Better than I would have thought I would feel, now that I’ve been breathing air for four decades. I do still have bouts of depression from time to time, but God has blessed me immeasurably. My wife, Laura, and I have been married for 15 years. We have four beautiful children together, and I love being the lead pastor of Christ the King Church. There’s much to be thankful for.

My four kids (and one of our neighbors who hangs out with us all the time)

I suppose each decade of my life has a theme. I spent my 20’s trying to figure out who I was and the sort of person I wanted to be. I worked at a bunch of different jobs, clawed my way out of debt, married up to the most amazing woman, and decided to go into ministry.

In my 30’s I settled into a few distinct roles and focused on them. I became a father for the first time at age 30. I went to seminary, worked in college ministry, helped plant Fellowship Church in Louisville, and moved to Cincinnati at the age of 34 to start Christ the King Church. I’ve now settled into the work that I expect I’ll spend the rest of my life doing: being a missionary to Cincinnati by planting more churches in this city.

William Borden was a dedicated Christian missionary to China. After he died, these words were discovered written into the back of his Bible: “No reserve. No retreat. No regrets.”

If there’s a particular theme I’d like to have for my 40’s, I’d take it from Micah 6:8: “do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with [my] God.” I want to focus on the things that are most important, not necessarily the things that are most urgent. And I want to live it with all my might. I want to enjoy the people and the work God has given me and serve Him faithfully until the end.

I don’t feel old. But old is coming whether I want it to or not. So I want to make every day count.

I can’t help being pensive around such a milestone. Four decades of life on this earth. Blessings too numerous to count. I’m thankful to God, my wife, my children, the rest of my family, and my church for all the ways my life has been enriched by all of you. I am truly and deeply blessed.

Another voice

I started this blog about 8 years ago in 2006 while I was in seminary and working for CRU at the University of Louisville. When you’re in a ministry vortex like that, you’ve got a lot of thoughts and opinions that need to get worked out and this blog was my venue.

But then, four children and a church plant happened. Life got crazy and blogging took a back burner for a long time. Since then, many other gifted writers, pastors, and theologians have started excellent blogs and I didn’t sense a burning need to add anything to the online discussions. There were simply too many other more pressing priorities that demanded my attention.

Recently, however, I have sensed a desire to publish my thoughts on theology, church ministry, and current events from time to time because God has given me a platform as a pastor and ministry leader in Cincinnati. Sometimes ideas presented in sermons need further development and this will be the venue for that.

So welcome back to this blog, it’s been a while. But hopefully adding another voice will be fruitful and not simply be more noise.

23 Life Changing Rock Solid Promises of Scripture

Paul argues in Galatians 4 that Christians are the true Sons of Abraham because we share the faith of Abraham. God made promise to Abraham to bless the entire world through his offspring. Abraham didn’t know the whole story; he trusted God for the revelation God had given him at that time.

But now, in Christ, we are able to see all the full grandeur of God’s redemptive promise that he initiated through Abraham. We share the faith of Abraham, but we cling to better promises (Hebrews 8:6), built on a better sacrifice (Hebrews 9:23), and provides for us a better possession (Hebrews 10:34) as we await a better life (Hebrews 11:35) and a better destiny (Hebrews 11:16).

This following list is the content of that better promise provided for us by Jesus Christ. God’s promise to Abraham was a shadow of the things to come; but here are 23 life-changing, rock solid promises of the New Testament that we have to hope in.

  1. God loves you (Galatians 2:20).
  2. God chose you before the foundation of the world (Ephesians 1:4).
  3. God knows you and you know God (Galatians 4:9).
  4. God has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing (Ephesians 1:3).
  5. God set his affection on you and adopted you into his family (Ephesians 1:5).
  6. God is Our Father (Matthew 6:9).
  7. God has redeemed us from all sin: all past sin, present sin, and future sin (Ephesians 1:7).
  8. God is also sanctifying us from sin (Ephesians 1:4; 1 Corinthians 6:11).
  9. God has united all of us together as a family; we are members of one another (Ephesians 2:14, 4:25).
  10. God has made us together the temple of his Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 3:16).
  11. God has given us direct access to him; we can boldly come before Him (Hebrews 4:16).
  12. God will never condemn you because Jesus was condemned for you (Romans 8:1).
  13. God will never leave you; he will never forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
  14. God has given you his Holy Spirit as a guarantee that he will bring his promise to final fulfillment (Ephesians 1:14).
  15. God works all things together for your highest good and his highest glory (Romans 8:28).
  16. God has created you for good works; you are his workmanship (Ephesians 2:10).
  17. God has set you free to pursue a radical life of love and service to God and others (Galatians 5:13-14).
  18. God will complete the good work he started in you; he will never give up on you (Philippians 1:6).
  19. God’s hand of discipline on us may be painful at times, but he loves us enough to correct us (Hebrews 12:6-8).
  20. God has made you a citizen of heaven (Philippians 3:20) and he is preparing a place for you there (John 14:2).
  21. God will greet you in death, because death is not the end, nor is it something to dread, because “to live is Christ and to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21-26).
  22. God has crushed the power of death through Jesus Christ; death is swallowed up in victory (1 Corinthians 15:54).
  23. God has planned all this from the beginning, for “from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be glory forever. Amen.” (Romans 11:36)